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Friday, November 14, 2008

A labor of love

It amazes me at how much history plays a part in our lives; how there can be meaning in such little things – and of course – in the big things. Small gestures of love, labors of love, and signs of love all folded into the history of our lives. And finally how quickly those gestures, labors and signs fade and turn into history. Tonight as I rocked my son to sleep in his cradle I was reminded of just such a history and the gesture, labor and sign of love that I was physically touching. For some 28+ years ago my grandfather labored and created a sign of his love for me – in the creation of that very cradle that I sat rocking tonight.

On Tuesday November 11th, for the first time we laid our son to sleep in that cradle for the night. Until Tuesday night he had slept exclusively in our bed. Now he only sleeps his first stent in that cradle, we bring him into our bed for the remainder of the night after he wakes up for his first feeding – sometimes that is 2am and once it was 6am! But tonight as I rocked him to sleep I realized that for the first time in 3 years I didn’t recognize the anniversary of my grandfather’s death until today. The date of November 10th was just another day in my life – it wasn’t an acknowledgement of the day he died, I wasn’t sad or even down that day.

Tonight lying in my bed, rocking Ace to sleep in my grandfather’s labor of love I shed a tear knowing that Ace’s great grandfather and grandfather will never know this little buddle of joy. But I find it to be heartwarming that I chose the night of the 11th to finally try to have Ace sleep in the cradle. Although not the anniversary of my grandpa’s death, it certainly marked a new beginning for our family – having our baby not sleep exclusively in our bed. He’s growing up, history is being made. Ace is sleeping in a piece of history, a labor, gesture and sign of love.

My grandfather was extremely skilled in woodworks and there are signs of that all over my home – but the most important piece to me is that cradle. I slept in it as an infant (and as a kid amid stuffed animals) and now my son is as well. I miss both my grandfather and my dad so much and so wish they were around to know this new addition to our family. Ace has my dad’s eyes. There’s no doubt about it when he smiles. And so as time continues on – new signs, gestures and labors of love are being created – and as my dad said “history keeps moving on.”

Good night everyone.


98 comments:

Holly @ posypocket.blogspot said...

wonderful family heirloom! (:

mammydiaries said...

That is absolutely beautiful.

BJ_Mama said...

What a beautiful and touching post! I love rememebering those that have gone before..

Lani said...

That is so great that you were able to use the cradle for your son as well.. lovely post:) Happy SITS day:)

Robin said...

A lovely post......and maybe one day, Aiden's son will rest in that cradle too.

Daphne said...

This is just so meaningful and poignant. thanks for sharing and Happy SITS day.

mub said...

This is a lovely post. It is fitting that you started using the cradle when you did!

Becky @ Our Sweet Peas said...

What a beautiful history that your grandfather passes on.

Tania @ Larger Family Life said...

Beautiful. I miss my grandfather too - a carpenter all his life.

knit1kids4 said...

We too have a cradle that was made by my husband's grandfather. It is a beautiful piece and I loved rocking my children in a part of history.

Queenie Jeannie said...

What a beautiful tribute!

Tara said...

ohhh this is just beautiful....i love family stories and traditions. what a wonderful story you'll be able to pass on!

Mommys Online Garage Sale said...

Such a heartwarming story!

Jennifer said...

Grief slices our soul and we are never the same. It is nice that you these things to bring back happy memories.

insomniacmummy said...

So beautiful. Brought a tear to my eye.

Astrid said...

Just beautiful!

My FIL made us a beautiful crib...that will certainly & hopefully turn into an heirloom piece handed down.

Creative Junkie said...

This was so poignant - how lucky you are to have such a beautiful heirloom.

Pam said...

How wonderful to have that 'labor of love' as a memento of your grandfather. And how special to see you darling boy sleeping so soundly in it.

Elizabeth Patch said...

how wonderful it will be when your son passes this on to his children!

Teresha@Marlie and Me said...

You are so blessed to have a token of your grandfather's love to remember him. HAPPY SITS DAY!

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Pollyanna said...

This is a beautiful story!

My father made a cradle for my girls and I look forward to passing it down to them. Also fine woodworkers, I have several pieces around my house that were handcrafted with love by my grandfather and father. I treasure each one of them.

Happy SITS day to you!

Lisa M said...

very touching. My mom died last year and I still miss her. It's so wonderful that you have such a precious heirloom.

Anti-Supermom said...

Simple beautiful. That photo is priceless.

Life of a Stepmama said...

Great post, very touching.

Amy said...

What beautiful memories you have of them. I am sure that your son will come to know them through your love and memories.

confused homemaker said...

Very sweet picture, it's also beautiful that your grandfather is able to pass on his love with that cradle.

Rhonda said...

That was beautiful!!

Tonya said...

What a sweet story!

Cher said...

lovely post---just love it!

Laura said...

That is one gift that will always be cherished. I have a quilt may grandmother made me (she's 92 now) that will always be a special gift.

B.o.B. said...

Gorgeous crib and craftmanship. It's just not the same if you go buy one at the store. Don't worry, the do know him.

Happy SITS DAy!

Heather said...

What a wonderful cherished memory and a beautiful cradle!

Anna said...

What a wonderful thing to cherish and pass down through your family. Happy SITS day!

Laila Of Course! said...

This post was simply wonderful. I loved it. And I'm happy your son will be able to pass it on to his children and so keep the family close. :)

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Superjaxster said...

Beautiful post and beautiful cradle. How blessed you are to have those keepsakes to remember your father and grandfather

Brandy said...

What a sweet story. It's so important to keep those memories alive. Maybe one day you can pass this down to Aiden and his children.

Bethany said...

What an awesome heirloom your family has- it's gorgeous!

Ronnica said...

I love pieces of homemade furniture passed down in the family. They're so much more than a few pieces of wood.

Michelle said...

AWE! That is sad and yet not. Thanks for sharing that.

Beautiful picture.

Debbie said...

What a beautiful post.

missy said...

awwww......thanks for sharing!!!!!

The Mom @ Babes in Hairland said...

Beautifully put. That's wonderful that you have things from your grandfather to remind you forever of him. You can't put a price on those - and it's so great memories can be made with them. Enjoy your day in the SITS spotlight.

Stephanie said...

Thank you for sharing your treasured memories!

Rhiannon Nicole said...

This is gorgeous and so well said. Thank you for sharing with all of us. I feel touched :) I also have some things my grandpa has made, like a step stool that I used just yesterday. Happy SITS Day!

Eclipsed said...

It's amazing how much our own little ones make us remember the people who loved and cared for us growing up.

Megan R. said...

My own Dad built a cradle for us, while I was pregnant with Chunky Monkey.He slept in it for 4 months, and is 9 months now. My husband just moved it out of our room last night, and I was so sad to see it go!

Chaotic Kristy said...

Such a great story. It almost brought tears to my eyes. I don't have anything from my past to pass on to my daughter but my grandmother did make her a few dresses and blankets that I plan to save for her when she gets older.

Thanks for sharing such a heartwarming story.

Hannah said...

I hadn't thought of my grandfather in a long time. I needed that memory. Thanks.

Happy SITS day!

Jewls said...

How sweet. Thanks for sharing! I'm sure your grandpa would be happy! :)

Smitten by Britain said...

Sweet. Neither one of my grandparents got to meet my son. I really wish they had.

Sandy said...

Beautiful!

Jillian said...

very nice!!
I wish my maternal grandmother were still around - she was a wonderful grandmother and I would have loved to have my future children experience her.

Happy SITS day!

San said...

Thank you for sharing that. How beautiful!

Cynthia at A Shimmy In My Spirit said...

Beautiful post. The older I get the more I realize it's the little moments that mean the most. Your blogging is saving those for Aiden. He will be touched forever by how much love there is in those moments.

carma said...

very touching

Stephanie said...

Hi from SITS!

What a wonderful, tangible memory of your grandfather!

Reluctant Housewife said...

That's a beautiful cradle and a lovely post.

Pricilla said...

It is wonderful to have heirlooms like that to pass down.

Happy SITS day

Marrdy said...

What a beautiful post and an amazing story!

Holly @ Domestic Dork said...

The best heirlooms are the ones that we get to use. Beautiful.

Erin said...

This is yet again another beautiful post. I'm certain your grandfather would be proud! Happy SITS Day!

Kristen said...

Such a beautiful post.

Sarah Ruth said...

This is so beautiful. I have special things that my grandpa made too. Very special.

Happy SITS day!

Just A Mom (Call me JAM for short) said...

What a sweet post. Heirlooms are so wonderful to have!

The818 said...

Beautiful story, beautifully written.

My husband just completed our daughter's crib, and when he brought it into the nursery, I teared up, because I realized that he'd built an heirloom. How special that you still have the cradle for your little one!

(and happy SITS day.)

Eve said...

Very touching story. How wonderful it must be to have such a treasure and to be able to put it to use.

Camille said...

Thanks for the reminder. Both of my grandfathers are still alive and I need to take advantage of that time with them! By the way, I love the serene picture of your little boy sleeping!

Christian Mommy Writer said...

What a beautiful post.

It's cool to have talented people like that in your family that can make family heirlooms. Happy SITS day!

Katie said...

This is a beautiful post! happy SITS day!

Mel said...

That is so beautiful....sometimes I think of my grandparents possibly looking down and watching over us....I just think they know and can feel the love at times like these because, in essence, it is a little piece of heaven.:)

The Marketing Mama said...

That is so beautiful, thank you for sharing. Happy SITS day! :)

K said...

What a wonderful gift!

Rachel said...

How neat to have a cradle made with love and passed down like that.

La Belle Mere said...

What a lovely story. Some items are just price-less.

Happy SITS day. xxx

Mary at Deep South Dish said...

Beautiful post!

Happy SITS Day.

firstStepForward said...

Such a beautiful story, very touch.

Happy SITS!

Norine said...

This is such a beautiful story, thank you for sharing! And congratulations on your big SITS day!

Norine
Don't Put Lizards In Your Ears

Lamonica Epps said...

Very touching story. I enjoyed reading it.

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Helen McGinn said...

How lovely. How peaceful does he look? :O) xx

Robbie S. Redmon, LPC said...

Beautiful! Happy SITS Day!

dddiva said...

What a beautiful post- I love those stories.

Merry Mack said...

What a beautiful story! Happy SITS day to you.
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Just Lisa said...

beautiful story... so nice to have that piece made by your grandfather.

Mercedes said...

Just because they will never meet here doesn't mean they don't show eachother love. The crib is just an example.

Mama Mel said...

Great post! Lovely story! :)

Maria @BOREDmommy said...

That was a lovely post!!

HAPPY SITS DAY!!

the planet of janet said...

beautiful post. and a lovely tribute to your grandfather.

Atlanta said...

There are things that my grandfather made fo me and even for my children, all over my house. Its amazing to have a connection with those things. They arent just things... And Our son slept in the cradle that he slept in as a baby as well. Sweet
Post ;)

Kristin said...

What a lovely post.

Crystal said...

Beautiful post...thank you for sharing.

Sassy Chica said...

Priceless and Precious...thanks for sharing.

Happy SITS DAY!

shortmama said...

So sweet and touching. What a treasure you have in that cradle

Single Mama NYC said...

That was so beautiful.

Brandy said...

that brought tears to my eyes.

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T~T said...

so beautiful to read - Lovely cradle and I too lost my father and my children will never have the opportunity to meet him, but they sort of do, b/c I speak of him often and tell funny stories about him and they often speak of him as well

Cindi @ Moomette's Magnificents said...

Certainly beautiful! I cherish my grandmom's furniture, but it's special for you since it was handmade! Thanks for sharing.

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y u l z said...

very touching