On Tuesday November 11th, for the first time we laid our son to sleep in that cradle for the night. Until Tuesday night he had slept exclusively in our bed. Now he only sleeps his first stent in that cradle, we bring him into our bed for the remainder of the night after he wakes up for his first feeding – sometimes that is 2am and once it was 6am! But tonight as I rocked him to sleep I realized that for the first time in 3 years I didn’t recognize the anniversary of my grandfather’s death until today. The date of November 10th was just another day in my life – it wasn’t an acknowledgement of the day he died, I wasn’t sad or even down that day.
Tonight lying in my bed, rocking Ace to sleep in my grandfather’s labor of love I shed a tear knowing that Ace’s great grandfather and grandfather will never know this little buddle of joy. But I find it to be heartwarming that I chose the night of the 11th to finally try to have Ace sleep in the cradle. Although not the anniversary of my grandpa’s death, it certainly marked a new beginning for our family – having our baby not sleep exclusively in our bed. He’s growing up, history is being made. Ace is sleeping in a piece of history, a labor, gesture and sign of love.
My grandfather was extremely skilled in woodworks and there are signs of that all over my home – but the most important piece to me is that cradle. I slept in it as an infant (and as a kid amid stuffed animals) and now my son is as well. I miss both my grandfather and my dad so much and so wish they were around to know this new addition to our family. Ace has my dad’s eyes. There’s no doubt about it when he smiles. And so as time continues on – new signs, gestures and labors of love are being created – and as my dad said “history keeps moving on.”
Good night everyone.
98 comments:
wonderful family heirloom! (:
That is absolutely beautiful.
What a beautiful and touching post! I love rememebering those that have gone before..
That is so great that you were able to use the cradle for your son as well.. lovely post:) Happy SITS day:)
A lovely post......and maybe one day, Aiden's son will rest in that cradle too.
This is just so meaningful and poignant. thanks for sharing and Happy SITS day.
This is a lovely post. It is fitting that you started using the cradle when you did!
What a beautiful history that your grandfather passes on.
Beautiful. I miss my grandfather too - a carpenter all his life.
We too have a cradle that was made by my husband's grandfather. It is a beautiful piece and I loved rocking my children in a part of history.
What a beautiful tribute!
ohhh this is just beautiful....i love family stories and traditions. what a wonderful story you'll be able to pass on!
Such a heartwarming story!
Grief slices our soul and we are never the same. It is nice that you these things to bring back happy memories.
So beautiful. Brought a tear to my eye.
Just beautiful!
My FIL made us a beautiful crib...that will certainly & hopefully turn into an heirloom piece handed down.
This was so poignant - how lucky you are to have such a beautiful heirloom.
How wonderful to have that 'labor of love' as a memento of your grandfather. And how special to see you darling boy sleeping so soundly in it.
how wonderful it will be when your son passes this on to his children!
You are so blessed to have a token of your grandfather's love to remember him. HAPPY SITS DAY!
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This is a beautiful story!
My father made a cradle for my girls and I look forward to passing it down to them. Also fine woodworkers, I have several pieces around my house that were handcrafted with love by my grandfather and father. I treasure each one of them.
Happy SITS day to you!
very touching. My mom died last year and I still miss her. It's so wonderful that you have such a precious heirloom.
Simple beautiful. That photo is priceless.
Great post, very touching.
What beautiful memories you have of them. I am sure that your son will come to know them through your love and memories.
Very sweet picture, it's also beautiful that your grandfather is able to pass on his love with that cradle.
That was beautiful!!
What a sweet story!
lovely post---just love it!
That is one gift that will always be cherished. I have a quilt may grandmother made me (she's 92 now) that will always be a special gift.
Gorgeous crib and craftmanship. It's just not the same if you go buy one at the store. Don't worry, the do know him.
Happy SITS DAy!
What a wonderful cherished memory and a beautiful cradle!
What a wonderful thing to cherish and pass down through your family. Happy SITS day!
This post was simply wonderful. I loved it. And I'm happy your son will be able to pass it on to his children and so keep the family close. :)
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Beautiful post and beautiful cradle. How blessed you are to have those keepsakes to remember your father and grandfather
What a sweet story. It's so important to keep those memories alive. Maybe one day you can pass this down to Aiden and his children.
What an awesome heirloom your family has- it's gorgeous!
I love pieces of homemade furniture passed down in the family. They're so much more than a few pieces of wood.
AWE! That is sad and yet not. Thanks for sharing that.
Beautiful picture.
What a beautiful post.
awwww......thanks for sharing!!!!!
Beautifully put. That's wonderful that you have things from your grandfather to remind you forever of him. You can't put a price on those - and it's so great memories can be made with them. Enjoy your day in the SITS spotlight.
Thank you for sharing your treasured memories!
This is gorgeous and so well said. Thank you for sharing with all of us. I feel touched :) I also have some things my grandpa has made, like a step stool that I used just yesterday. Happy SITS Day!
It's amazing how much our own little ones make us remember the people who loved and cared for us growing up.
My own Dad built a cradle for us, while I was pregnant with Chunky Monkey.He slept in it for 4 months, and is 9 months now. My husband just moved it out of our room last night, and I was so sad to see it go!
Such a great story. It almost brought tears to my eyes. I don't have anything from my past to pass on to my daughter but my grandmother did make her a few dresses and blankets that I plan to save for her when she gets older.
Thanks for sharing such a heartwarming story.
I hadn't thought of my grandfather in a long time. I needed that memory. Thanks.
Happy SITS day!
How sweet. Thanks for sharing! I'm sure your grandpa would be happy! :)
Sweet. Neither one of my grandparents got to meet my son. I really wish they had.
Beautiful!
very nice!!
I wish my maternal grandmother were still around - she was a wonderful grandmother and I would have loved to have my future children experience her.
Happy SITS day!
Thank you for sharing that. How beautiful!
Beautiful post. The older I get the more I realize it's the little moments that mean the most. Your blogging is saving those for Aiden. He will be touched forever by how much love there is in those moments.
very touching
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What a wonderful, tangible memory of your grandfather!
That's a beautiful cradle and a lovely post.
It is wonderful to have heirlooms like that to pass down.
Happy SITS day
What a beautiful post and an amazing story!
The best heirlooms are the ones that we get to use. Beautiful.
This is yet again another beautiful post. I'm certain your grandfather would be proud! Happy SITS Day!
Such a beautiful post.
This is so beautiful. I have special things that my grandpa made too. Very special.
Happy SITS day!
What a sweet post. Heirlooms are so wonderful to have!
Beautiful story, beautifully written.
My husband just completed our daughter's crib, and when he brought it into the nursery, I teared up, because I realized that he'd built an heirloom. How special that you still have the cradle for your little one!
(and happy SITS day.)
Very touching story. How wonderful it must be to have such a treasure and to be able to put it to use.
Thanks for the reminder. Both of my grandfathers are still alive and I need to take advantage of that time with them! By the way, I love the serene picture of your little boy sleeping!
What a beautiful post.
It's cool to have talented people like that in your family that can make family heirlooms. Happy SITS day!
This is a beautiful post! happy SITS day!
That is so beautiful....sometimes I think of my grandparents possibly looking down and watching over us....I just think they know and can feel the love at times like these because, in essence, it is a little piece of heaven.:)
That is so beautiful, thank you for sharing. Happy SITS day! :)
What a wonderful gift!
How neat to have a cradle made with love and passed down like that.
What a lovely story. Some items are just price-less.
Happy SITS day. xxx
Beautiful post!
Happy SITS Day.
Such a beautiful story, very touch.
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This is such a beautiful story, thank you for sharing! And congratulations on your big SITS day!
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Very touching story. I enjoyed reading it.
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How lovely. How peaceful does he look? :O) xx
Beautiful! Happy SITS Day!
What a beautiful post- I love those stories.
What a beautiful story! Happy SITS day to you.
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beautiful story... so nice to have that piece made by your grandfather.
Just because they will never meet here doesn't mean they don't show eachother love. The crib is just an example.
Great post! Lovely story! :)
That was a lovely post!!
HAPPY SITS DAY!!
beautiful post. and a lovely tribute to your grandfather.
There are things that my grandfather made fo me and even for my children, all over my house. Its amazing to have a connection with those things. They arent just things... And Our son slept in the cradle that he slept in as a baby as well. Sweet
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What a lovely post.
Beautiful post...thank you for sharing.
Priceless and Precious...thanks for sharing.
Happy SITS DAY!
So sweet and touching. What a treasure you have in that cradle
That was so beautiful.
that brought tears to my eyes.
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so beautiful to read - Lovely cradle and I too lost my father and my children will never have the opportunity to meet him, but they sort of do, b/c I speak of him often and tell funny stories about him and they often speak of him as well
Certainly beautiful! I cherish my grandmom's furniture, but it's special for you since it was handmade! Thanks for sharing.
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very touching
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