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Thursday, July 7, 2011

Cloth Diapering

With Ace the idea never even remotely sounded ideal. Too much work, disgusting, not worth it... was basically my conclusing. Being (almost) the first of my friends to have kids, I didn't have a lot of others that were doing cloth diapering to be inspiring and I wasn't a part of any mommy group to show me how best to do it. When Mae came, I still was almost 100% sold on disposables. In fact at my showers I requested diapers!! And I got lots of diapers (which we've used all of!!.)

Mae arrived and her first two months were exclusively in disposable diapers and then friends of mine started to transition into cloth diapering and so dialog began regarding the cost effectiveness of them. For me it's not an enviromental thing. There is a debate whether it truly is enviromentally conscious. Seriously. I mean with the amount of water and energy I am using every other day to launder these diapers... vs the non-breakdown of disposables over time... it's questionable. See I can debate anything. ;-) I digress... In addition to the cost factor, I also appreciate that she isn't in a disposable all the time which occasionally have questionable issues regarding the methods and chemicals they use to make them. Again, I'm not so hard core that I don't put her in them - but it is nice for her little body to have a break from them.

So after discussing in my mom's online group and with my friend Carrie as she embarked on her CD journey, I decided to give it a go with part time CDing. I never had or have any desire for full time CDing. I knew that I wasn't interested in prefolds, wrappers, etc. I wanted something that was basically identical to a diaper... but cloth. I learned those are called All-in-ones (AIO) and I found some BumGenius 3.0s that were clearanced for $10 a diaper, and sadly are no longer available. I ordered 4 small-sized AIOs and a wetbag from Planet Wise. It was a good first trial. Mae liked her diaper - she was very smiley on the changing table.


After our first experience with those and liking those a little while later... after her stay in the hospital, where we of course stuck to disposables only... I ordered 2 more of the BG 3.0s and 1 of the BG 4.0 O/S pocket diaper The 4.0 OS pocket diaper is a diaper that is one size and can be fitted to fit a small baby or a skinny toddler. It has a snap system to adjust the size and then it's a pocket diaper because you stuff the liner into it. Whereas the AIO it is sewn into the diaper. Since Mae is tiny I still prefer the 3.0s the best because the are actually sized from 8-16lbs. So they are more trim on her. Now having 7 diapers in my stash I had almost enough for one day. Then someone told me about NuBunz and their pocket diapers that were only $4.50 each. I bought 5. Although they didn't come until after we had stopped using our washing machine and were back to disposables only before we moved.
Upon our arrival to Mississippi, I was so excited (about diapers?!) to be able to break out the cloth diapers. Mae now has a 'stash' of 18 cloth diapers. I have added a couple of random ones when I ordered a 'mystery bag' at a discount. Those are only just ok, but work! And additionally I have ordered a larger wet bag. All in all for under $200 Mae is in cloth diapers now 80% of the day. At night she's in a disposable - they just can hold more liquid (for sure) and so I don't want to deal with double stuffing inserts in a cloth diaper so that it can have extra absorbency etc..

Laundry is every other day and involves a 30 minute cold double rinse, followed by a 2 hour sanitizing wash with an extra rinse using very little All free & clear HE detergent and a half a cup of vinegar every other time I wash them. Then 60-80 minutes on high heat in the dryer. After that even the AIOs are dry (since I'm drying a product that is intended to lock in moisture... it takes a little effort to get them dry.) Until laundry day everything is tossed into the wet bag which locks in any smell, just as well as a diaper genie does. We still use disposable wipes and those just get tossed into the diaper genie when we're done with those. All in all it's a good system. Mae looks cute in her little cloth bootie and now even if I run out of Ace's diapers, we have an alternative for him as well! Although not for much longer because Ace is potty training!
Now since this is a cost issue for me (sorta) I like to see how long Mae needs to wear these diapers to really make them less expensive than disposables. My most expensive diaper to date is my BG 4.0 at $17... which is less cost 'effective' than the others I have bought but since Ace can fit in this diaper (seriously, see picture above) ... then I think we'll easily make up the cost. Breakdown: $17 for one diaper vs $0.20 a diaper = wearing this one diaper 3x a week for 7 months to equal (roughly) the cost of this cloth diaper to the amount spent in disposables. Tack on another month or two for the electric and water we're spending that obviously isn't spent on disposable and that puts Mae around 13 months before my BG 4.0 is 'paid off' - doesn't seem worth it? That's the worst case scenario. My NuBunz cost $4.50 each ... Mae only needs to wear those for 3x a week for 7 weeks to have those be saving us money. So in fact at this point every time she wears a NuBunz we are saving money ($0.16-0.20 cents at a time! oh boy!), because she's already worn them enough to "pay for them" (especially since we're not paying for water or electricity right now!) I already notice that she goes through her disposable diapers far less. In fact thanks to everyone who gave us disposables before she was born - we have only bought two boxes of disposables and one of those was because we needed them in newborn size.

So while I previously thought anyone that would attempt cloth diapering was utterly insane. I now see the benefits and even the excitement in it. Finding the best deals, the cutests designs, the best laundry techniques, the best fit, etc. It's a unique challenge and certainly something that you can talk about with other cloth diapering mamas for a long time. I know who would have thought cloth diapers would ever be a subject I wanted to chat about? Don't worry, I won't talk your ear off. I don't care THAT much.


Mae and her dad back in May

Wednesday, July 6, 2011

The Fair

Oops! I never got around to blogging about our trip to the fair back in June! Well never too late I say. :) Yes, the fair came to town and so one Thursday night (while it was free for all to enter) we headed down to it. Parking was a bit of a nightmare because there was another event at the same venue that night, but overall it wasn't too crowded at the fair.

The main reason I wanted to go to the fair was to photograph it. I wasn't convinced that Ace would find it super enjoyable yet, it was ME that wanted to go to play with some photography fun! So with expectations set, Mae strapped in the Ergo carrier, we headed in. I was armed with my camera and my 50mm lens. After doing research online for the best settings for what I wanted to acquire we went on in! We acquired tickets and jumped on the Ferris wheel. I loved to watch Ace's reaction - he was so interested in everything and in awe that he could see so far.

After we enjoyed our aerial tour of our surroundings we walked a bit more and I captured some more photos and played with lighting, color, and settings.


1/160s, f/1.8, IS0: 100

1/250s, f/1.8, ISO: 100


Next up Ace and his dad enjoyed a trip down the giant slide which Ace enjoyed and we continued to walk. Ace found a game to play and he won himself a sword, which after obtaining his sword, he asked a pretty girl to sword fight with him (she was about 15) and she obliged. It was cute. Later he found a cooler sword that he could win and so he and his dad fished in order to get it. :)





Next up we stopped by the carousel, all out of overpriced tickets we just observed our surroundings and I captured a few more pictures.



The final pictures that I was after were ones of the Ferris wheel, I had read about a technique to blur the lights of the wheel and I really wanted to try it out. I couldn't remember how to do it until just before we were ready to leave - and then I captured one shot and a riot broke out - so I am certain I could have captured it a bit better, but I had to get a move on to avoid me and Mae getting squished in the fight. Drama!

8.0s**, f/22.0, ISO:100One last shot before we head out of the back of the Ferris wheel...
TIPS!

* A higher ISO speed will cause your picture to be more granulated but for an action shot, you can reduce blur by increasing the ISO. ISO noise can be reduced in Photoshop, but a blurry picture is blurred forever.

** For a long shutter speed a tripod is always ideal... but considering a fair isn't exactly tripod friendly a good hug against a lamp post will do, which is what I did to hold the camera somewhat still for 8 seconds. Propping the camera against your chest and holding your breath works for some shots as well. As I mentioned I wasn't able to get a second go at my picture because of the riot and I had a squirmy baby on me, so I'll take what I got. I'm pretty proud of it. :)


1/160s, f/2.0, ISO: 200


1/125s, f/1.8, ISO: 3200*



1/60s, f/1.8, ISO1600


1/60s, f/2.5, ISO: 800

Our 4th of July

Our 4th of July was a nice one. Relatively low key during the day. We BBQed with just our family, as all those we know here were already busy with other plans. Loving Husband enjoyed experimenting with various flavoring techniques on the burgers, no two alike. :) They were yummy. I made some tasty red, white, and blue strawberries an inspiration from Pinterest to take with us to the beach, but then forgot to.

I did a mini photoshoot with the kids in their 4th of July gear. This year Ace didn't have any '4th of July' specific garb, but he enjoyed his red Toy Story shirt with American pride just the same. ;-) Mae's outfit came from Grammie and she was just darling in it and kept it clean the whole day! Yipee!

Around 7:30 we convoyed closer to the base gate with the neighbors and parked the car and walked to the beach. We set up camp near a sand dune (which later worked out perfectly for the tripod and grabbing firework shots above the masses.) The weather was perfect. It was in the low 80s (maybe even dipped into the 70s) there was a tiny tiny breeze and what felt like no humidity at all. It was a perfect night.

This was Mae's first 4th of July and it's always a question mark on how little ones will react to all the loud booms and bangs that are surrounding this holiday... let me say though she did amazing! When we got to the beach I plopt her sitting self down on the beach blanket and handed her a toy. She sat there for over an hour just happily playing, looking around, watching the fireworks. She never once cried from being scared. She did fuss in protest when the main show was about to begin when I put her in the Ergo - mostly because she was too dern hot in there - once I took her out and just held her she was fine. She never once needed to comfort nurse and she was a gem for our three hour outting.


Now what about Ace? We were a bit curious how he would react with all the loud booms and cracks too since he's had issue with loud noises - we did bring ear plugs but he didn't need them, after he figured out what the noise was he was super excited to see them. He loved to run around the beach near us and bury himself in the sand. He seriously laid in the sand and just rolled around all night long. In fact upon coming home he required a shower before bed he was that sandy.
This year we didn't purchase our own fireworks - it was iffy on if they'd be allowed since there are burn bans in all counties, but as it worked out they were allowed on the beach only - so we had LOTS of great fireworks to see all around us. Loving Husband acquired a sparkler from a woman and he and Ace went off to light it. Ace got to hold it all by himself this year and was waving that thing around like crazy! So crazy that he even singed his dad's leg, just a bit. ;-) Ace to sum it up had a BLAST! I'm so glad he didn't let his noise fear cloud is fun. We were so proud of him!

I was a bit anti-social, I'll admit. I had researched ahead of time and really wanted to try out all the various methods of capturing fireworks. I'll do a separate post on those, but this is my favorite shot. :)

18-135mm lens, zoomed to 57mm, 2 second shutter speed, f/13, ISO 100

Overall a great 4th of July in the South! We had a good time, weren't too hot, and didn't have any issues with crowds or war zone like conditions on the beach.



A Playmat

Ok so I have been mildly obsessed with Pinterest as of late and because of this obsession and a lot of free time on my hands (how on earth do I have free time with two kids?? I'm not sure, but I do) I have been enjoying some craftiness. One of my pins was for this quilt pattern. I am a huge fan of the Yellow Brick Road pattern and so anything that is similar is fun too. I decided to give this a try because what I really wanted to try was to make a playmat - which basically is a quilt with little tags sewn into it allowing toys to be attached. I highly doubt this is a novel idea, but I 'came up with it' on my own.


I had some fabric that I had been wanting to use now for sometime, that my friend Stacy had give to me and Mae seemed like the ideal person to use it on and that it would make a fun bright play area for her. The pattern was extremely easy, for the back I used the last of the fat quarters that came with the cherry set and then I used up the remainder of a green fabric that I had that complimented it nicely. I was extremely limited on the green and having almost exactly the right amount without any extra cutting that is why the back has a more 'modern' look to it.


This was the first quilt that I chose to do free motion quilting on. I'm normally a stitch-in-the-ditch kinda gal, because I'm petrified of ruining a quilt top that I spent a long amount of time on, ruining a present, or pretty fabric... and since this was for Mae and I have a new machine that is amazing I figured the chances of ruining my pretty fabric were very slim and so I decided to go for it. And not having a free motion quilting foot on my machine (still need to purchase that), I think it turned out great! It's not perfect there are a few spots of puckering and pulling, but overall it turned out great. We'll see how it does after a wash or two. :)


To finish it up I used a dvd (a netflix one... hehe) to round the corners and then I pinned some double wide bias tape and sewed that onto the mat. I am absolutely horrible at a blind stitch. I don't know if I have the technique wrong, no patience or a combo of the two - but I have never been good at it and I have zero desire to exercise 'practice makes perfect.' I am perfectly content having a top stitch or two on my boarder of my quilts. :) And that's what I did (it's a lot faster that way too!)

And wa la! I was done. It took one afternoon of cutting while the kids played (maybe about an hour worth of work spred over 90 minutes), Ace helped me lay out the pattern before dinner that night, and another hour of sewing the quilt top after they went to bed. A few days later I took another 2 hours to sew the back, quilt, and bind. Mae is certainly happy with the results and I am too. :)

Tuesday, July 5, 2011

Revisiting Baby Signing

Before my son was born we were set that we would be using baby signing in our household, and we did and it was very beneficial as those language skills took their time to catch up with his communication skills. Ace signed his first word "milk" when he was 7 months old. After a few months he had a dozen or so signs to communicate with us: milk, water, eat, more, all done, sorry, diaper, please, thank you... are the ones that got frequent use in our home. After he learned to say these words however signing dropped off and became nonexistant - until now! Tis the season again for Baby Signing once again.

Mae in this last week has been signing milk! The first time I saw it I took it as a fluke. She's not even 6 months old yet, she couldn't possibly... and yet she had done it very specifically timed with her mild fussing that she does when she wants milk. Hmm... so of course I signed milk for her and gave her some milk. A few days later she did it again and when I asked if she wanted milk she did her other telling mode of communicating that by opening her mouth REALLY wide (which is adorable!) Hmm... Finally, I decided that she was officially signing when she was sitting up on the floor being relatively still (aka not thrashing about making wild hand gestures that her overly-proud mommy wishes to make into a sign for milk) she looked up at me said 'mama' and then raised her arm and made the sign for milk. Be still my heart. It's just so amazing to watch your child learn, succeed and communicate! It does make me an overly proud mom (legitmately!) So one week shy of turning 6 months old, Mae signed her first word: "milk"




Next up we will introduce "more" and "all done" as we venture into solids a bit more consistantly after our return from California.

Space Week - Part 2

Every morning last week Ace woke up saying he was 'really excited' for school and inquiring when could we do school. I was so glad he was so excited about it. Our routine every morning was to go over the planets, their factoid, and their placement in the solar system. By the end of the week he had most of the planets memorized, order remained sketchy in his mind and required prompting - but for an almost-three year old he remembered and retained quite a bit.

Ace learned about NASA (very little) and space ships and astronauts. He learned about space travel and at the end of our lesson on astronauts Ace got to try out astronaut ice cream which he very much enjoyed.



We ended our week with a giant floor puzzle (the main investment for Space Week found on Amazon.) I helped by putting pieces mostly in the right places and Ace put it together. All 48 pieces were placed by him. He's still a long ways off from putting it together from just out of the box, but he happily has the patience for simple rotation in the general location each piece is meant to go. :)

Also if you're wondering, Ace picks out his own clothing. This often means long sleeves when it is literally over 100' outside. So since we're in an AC environment I allow it, because he gets to choose his own clothes. Upon the need to leave the house we strongly encourage (and ultimately demand) an outfit change to something more climate appropriate. Can't blame the kid... most of his life he has spent more time in long sleeve than in short ones ;-)


Space week was a huge success! We decided that we wanted to not have Ace having to learn too much indepth stuff all week long, every week and so I've started to come up with some weeks that are just plain fun in activities and have learning mixed in. So today starts Dr. Seuss Week! :) Lots of reading, silliness, and fun foods are in our future! :)

Monday, July 4, 2011

Happy Birthday, America!

Happy Fourth of July!



From my little firecrackers,
to all of you!



Thank you to all the men and women, including my husband, who serve to protect this country's freedom.